women!

Why is it that some people cannot see what is right in front of them???

I just spoke to my sister K and she told me something very annoying!

On the weekend she broke up with her boyfriend (thats good news). He was an absolute tool. He was possessive, jealous, insecure, arrogant, demeaning, controlling, belittling and anything else you want to add, towards my sister.

I knew this, my gf C knew this, my parents and friends knew this. But today, after we were all thanking the good lord for letting K see this and for breaking them up, she tells me "I told him I was willing to listen to him".

I cannot believe it.

If they get back together, I will tell her that he is not welcome in this house (I live with K).

This is the second time they have brocken up. It is also about the 35th time I've seen her crying because of him.

I heard a saying once and I think it should apply to everyone. "The person who is worth all your tears will not make you cry" (something like that anyway). I can proudly say that I have never made my girlfriend C cry - Although I do have the odd bout of being a stupid idiot and causing problems, but that is a post for another day!

Oh and to those wondering why a guy makes so much of a fuss about his sister, well its because I love her! We live together, have done a few times since moving out of home. She is older than me (nearly 30) and yet I am very protective of her. So when I see her with what I like to call 'fish from the wrong stream' I tend to let her know.

Sorry, but I just needed to vent.

Im off!